Tiffany Gouche

At first I thought 'garddamn if this isn't a bitter song I don't know what could be.'

Then I revelled in the honesty and vulnerability of the song the longer it played.

'Baby I hope someone breaks your heart 

So you know what it feels to be a victim'  

In moments of hurt its very easy to wish ill on whomever wronged you.  

When Tiffany sings  

'Broken hearted, torn apart and I don’t know if I am gonna make it'  

You feel the hurt and despair.  

Tiffany has a wonderful way of letting her true emotions seep in between the words, momentary you feel her pain, anger and disappointment.

This is someone who needs to express these emotions. 

I am really learning the importance of being careful with what is vocalised; but in the same vain, the importance of being true to oneself. I am learning that in order to heal one must acknowledge  pain quite honestly. One must find a way in which to express this pain, sometimes the path to exploring and acknowledging pain is more violent but the healing always comes.

This is the kind of song one writes immediately after finding out their matey has fucked up.

Maybe my opinion on this may change in time, but if Juliet has upset you, let Juliet know she has upset you and why she has upset you. This for me has meant that I am more aware when I transfer pain from the source to a civilian. 

Tiffany, what a fucking babe. 

P.s - However I am also learning that sometimes even telling Juliet is a waste of energy, sometimes just let it go. Acknowledge Juliet is a cunt and let it go, unless you really have to tell her. But you have to decide when to tell her and when to roll your eyes.